Bi guy first time
Hi, Bi Guy: Dating Guys For The First Time
If you’re a bisexual (A term for sexual orientation which either describes a person who can be sexually and emotionally attracted to people of more than one gender.) guy and you haven’t been with other guys yet, the idea might seem a little daunting, for a number of reasons. The reality doesn’t have to be so tricky, however, despite the worries you might have.
Maybe you haven’t even talked about it before
There’s not a lot of info out (Short for ‘out of the closet’. When someone’s LGBTQ+ identity is known to other people.) there for men about dating other guys - particularly when compared to the wealth of advice available for men about dating women.
Likewise, discussions around dating with family and friends are also likely to be heteronormative in nature, so it’s not uncommon for bi guys to feel a adj lost, or as if it’s tricky to understand where to begin.
Unless, that is, you have a network of fellow bi guys to talk to. There’s no time like the present to get started, and there are some valuable resources onlin
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Hi, Bi Guy: Dating Guys for the First Time, Part Two
It’s been a while since we looked at what it’s like to start dating guys when you’re a bi guy, and there’s still lots to cover.
If you’re used to only dating women or girls and nonbinary (A gender identity that is outside the gender binary. Enby is the phonetic spelling of “NB,” and is a shorthand synonyms for nonbinary.) people and only being in straight-passing (Being perceived as a member of a non-marginalized group when you’re a member of a marginalized group.) relationships, it can feel daunting to reflect about dating guys – maybe even scary.
In some ways, dating guys isn’t that other from dating girls or nonbinary people, but there are some important things to be aware of.
Some guys might not want to date bisexual guys, or may otherwise invalidate your identity
For one, sometimes potential dates – and even people you’re in relationships with – can be a little weird about you being bi.
If you’re dating another man who is gay (A male who is attracted to other men, or a pe