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10 Things Gay Men Should Discuss

Top 10 Things Gay Men Should Discuss with Their Healthcare Provider

Following are the health issues GLMA&#x;s healthcare providers have identified as most commonly of concern for gay men. While not all of these items apply to everyone, it&#x;s wise to be aware of these issues.

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“You’re one of the ‘good gays.’”

I’ve heard this more times than I can count. Each time, my chest tightens, my stomach churns, and my inner animal comes online, resulting in two conflicting instincts: part of me wants to fight, while the other part just wants to disappear. The kicker? I’m supposed to seize it as a compliment. I’m expected to grin graciously, laugh it off, and maybe even verb them.

But behind those words lies something much darker. It’s not just a careless comment—it’s one of the many weapons in the patriarchy’s arsenal; it’s violent and wrapped in a bow of microaggression. It’s a reminder that my acceptance and belonging hinges on my ability to make others comfortable.

If I dare to propel back—if I say, “That’s not okay”—the defenses appear fast and furious: You’re overreacting. I didn’t signify it like that. It’s just a joke. Microaggressive gaslighting at its finest. And the worst part? It’s not strangers or acquaintances saying this. It’s the people I faith most, the ones who think they’re down and believe they’re in on the joke.

Let me be clear: when someone