Straight guy bottoms


Theyexist.

Many gay men might oppose to believe it. Many straight women might deny to even think about it. But they exist: straight men (self-identified males who are sexually attracted to females) who greatly enjoy bottoming (being the receptive partner during anal intercourse).

My friend Matt could not find an acceptable explanation for all the moaning and groaning coming from his roommate Lisa's bedroom. The ecstatic voice of Lisa's boyfriend echoed in the apartment for interminable hours. Matt, who always had a very healthy gay sex life, was somewhat intrigued by what sounded like glorious enjoyment. There was something familiar in Lisa's boyfriend vocal epiphany of pleasure, in its rhythm, in its hesitations. Matt and Lisa were good friends, so when curiosity took over, he directly inquired about the details of her sexual practices. Lisa explained that her boyfriend liked to have anal sex (although this was not exactly her choice of words). More precisely, he liked -- loved even -- for Lisa to wear a strap-on dildo and penetrate him.

Anal sex is the modern oral sex,

Straight women get valuable things from men; Gay bottoms don't

Straight women use their holes to get cash, gifts, bills paid, houses, cars, vacations --everything, from their men. Gay bottoms don't get anything from their tops. How is that fair? Is there a significant enough difference between straight men and gay men that causes this discrepancy in treatment? How can we construct the situation more equitable, so gay bottoms can experience an easier life that's similar to what straight women get?

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by Anonymousreply 71September 18, PM

I think gay bottoms are just easier.

by Anonymousreply 1September 17, PM

OP

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by Anonymousreply 2September 17, PM

Straight women are blessed

by Anonymousreply 3September 17, PM

I think op is out of handle and clueless.

by Anonymousreply 4September 17, PM

[quote]Straight women obtain valuable things from men; Gay bottoms don't

What act you think semen is? Chopped liver?

by Anonymousreply 5September 17, PM

DeFecto recycled adv this time.

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Gay guys: tops and bottoms and related matters

I never did grasp what bottoms get out of it anyway; it does hurt…

If you can do it in such a way that it doesn’t hurt, it can be very pleasurable for the bottom, on a physical level: your anus contains similar types of nerve endings as the penis (which is why rimming is pleasurable too), and there’s also the prostate involved.

I’m sure for many (but certainly not all – I would doubt if even most) guys there must also be a psychological element of submission – that’s certainly the case for me, which is part of what makes the frottage (thanks!) thing mentioned above so hot. Naturally, I mean “submission” here in the sexual sense – you can carry out a whole d/s scene without either of the parties actually being more submissive in their regular lives (in fact, with it being the other way around, viz. certain ex-boyfriends.)

and isn’t having an orgasm the entire point of sex?

Certainly not! Orgasms are nice, but I can give myself an orgasm any time I want. What I can’t give myself is lying next to another person. For me,

Bottom's up ;)

QuietMountain21

wolf_reinhold:

That isn’t the point. The point is that as a straight man, I will not experience anal sex (unless I acquire thrown into prison, perhaps)

First of all, don’t we think a lot of ourselves thinking your fellow prisonersr will want to have sex with you.

But, I’m not sure being a straight gentleman means you will not experience anal sex. As I said in my earlier post… I verb of straight men who have liked something up the ass – from fingers to dildos to penises. I don’t contemplate that finding pleasure in penetration of your ass is exclusive to gay men. Plus, I don’t think that just because you like having something up there that that, necessarily, makes you gay. As you mentioned in your initial post being gay is more about sexual attraction to other men.

Though, I understand what you are trying to say. You have no desire to try it so will (probably) never have that experience.

QuietMountain22

Wolf, it’s the closest thing a man can get to a multiple orgasm

I don’t know if I’d agree with that statement, SD. My bf and I tend to